Carrying Unprocessed Grief
In a world where sadness unfelt, as Danny Pellegrino put it, in his novel How Do I Un-Remember This?,” we can see that processing “unfelt (sadness)” is almost a taboo. In more ways than we know, the world around us tend to say we can and should take a couple of days to process said grief. But when it comes to anything exceeding those couple of days, we see that we are questioned for our actions pertaining to that grief, and thus, become stigmatized for feeling too sad, or “emotional.” Just saying we need to do better is not enough. Our community is dealing with things like poverty; inequitable levels of society that their counterparts have put them in; and even notable items like food inequality and scarceness. I go back to a time when my grandmother had passed from COVID-19, and my boss said something like, “of course you should be with your family,” upon learning of said news of her passing. However, once I got there, she was already gone of course, but I felt an enormous amount...